Undoubtedly, each of the parents has their own methods of raising children that seem to them the most correct, and among our compatriots there are a lot of people who believe that children should be brought up in strictness, forcing them to recognize the authority of their parents.
But it is worth remembering that there are things that cannot be expected from children in any way. We will talk below about them.
1. No need to make a child lie
If you begin to demand that the child be honest all the time, then you should understand that the most important thing in this process is sequence, if he does not lie to you, then he should not lie to your grandmother, or to other friends of yours.
2. No need to force the child to eat when he does not want it at all.
Treat the child with understanding, he is an individual, he should not be like others, you do not need to cram as much food into the offspring as some rules require. Indeed, overeating did no good to anyone.
3. Do not change the child
There are parents who, by all means, want to change their child, they begin to turn him into who he really is not. In no case do not do this to him, each person has his own temperament, his own character.
If you got a shy little man, then take him as he is, you do not need to force him to become the soul of the company.
If your child is very active and noisy, then do not bother him to realize himself, to open his character traits and inclinations. Show him your care and love, accept him for who he is.
4. No need to demand an apology from the child, it is not clear why.
Quite often, parents begin to ask the child to apologize to one of the family members for an offense that the child himself is not even aware of. And the apology begins to simply lose strength, it turns into a ritual, the child does not betray him the meaning.
Argument your requirements for the child when asking him to apologize to one of the parents. It is necessary to explain what exactly he did wrong, otherwise the apology will not work.
5. You should think about the safety of the child, do not teach him to communicate with strangers, take gifts and sweets from them.
Quite often, strangers want to talk with the baby, treat him with something, like the parent persuade the child not to make such contacts, do not force him to do it.
It is worth thinking about the safety of your child, no matter how friendly strangers may seem, they may not be so harmless, and you can not always accompany a child everywhere.
6. You should not force children to be friends with those whom he does not like and who are not interested.
This will negatively affect further relationships with the child.
