About the methods of raising children

About the methods of raising children

Undoubtedly, each of the parents has their own methods of raising children, which seem to them the most correct, and among our compatriots there are a lot of people who believe that children should be brought up in strictness, forcing them to recognize the authority of their parents.

 But it is worth remembering that there are things that cannot be demanded from children in any way. We will talk about them below.

1. No need to force a child to lie

If you demand from the child to be honest all the time, then it is worth understanding what is most important in this process, if he does not lie to you, then he should not lie to his grandmother, or to other people you know.

2. No need to force a child to eat when he does not want it at all.

Treat your child with understanding, he is an individual, he should not be like others, you do not need to shove as much food into the offspring as any rules require. After all, overeating did not benefit anyone.

3. Do not change the child

 There are parents who, by all means, want to change their child, they begin to turn him into who he really is not. In no case do not do this to him, each person has his own temperament, his own character.

 If you got a shy little man, then accept him as he is, do not force him to become the soul of the company.

 If your child is very active and noisy, then do not stop him from realizing himself, opening his character traits and inclinations. Show him your care and love, accept it as it is.

4. It is not necessary to require an apology from the child is not clear why.

 Quite often, parents begin to ask the child to apologize to someone in the family for a crime that the child does not even realize. And the apology begins to simply lose its power, it turns into a ritual, the child does not betray him the meaning.

Argue your child’s requirements when asking him to apologize to one of his parents. It is necessary to explain what exactly he did wrong, otherwise the apology will not work.

5. It is worth thinking about the safety of the child, do not teach him to communicate with strangers, take gifts and sweets from them.

 Quite often, strangers want to talk to the baby, treat him with something, as a parent persuade the child not to make such contacts, do not force him to do it.

 It is worth thinking about the safety of your child, no matter how benevolent strangers may seem, they may not be so harmless, and you will not always be able to accompany the child everywhere.

6. Do not force children to be friends with those who he does not like and is not interesting.

This will negatively affect the future relationship with the child.